~ Its not how you listen
but how you recite.
If you haven't got haters,
you're not doing it right ~
instant follow back
|what you said was:||"i don't respect women who don't respect themselves"|
|what you meant was:||"i and society as a whole hold women up to ridiculous respectability standards directly relating to the "purity" of said women while hypersexualizing them at the same time and if you are a woman and don't fit my awkward monolith of criteria then i refuse to acknowledge your humanity"|
|what i heard was:||"hi i'm a misogynist piece of shit, please punch me in my face"|